Spiritual lightweights
I just read the post, Thoughts on John Maxwell and Leadership by Gabe Taviano and it stirred some thoughts…About 7 years ago I heard Terry Wardle (a prof. of mine from seminary) say something like, “Congregations are quickly realizing their leaders are suffering from ontological lightness. That is, their pastors are spiritual lightweights. And because of that, the church is powerless and is losing her influence. Most pastors today don’t have a vibrant walk with God.”
Spiritual lightweights…that’s a pretty heavy indictment.
When Bethany and I began looking for a church we wanted to find a community that was developing a culture that encouraged and drew people to take their walk with God to the next level. I didn’t want a church that was going to give me a management system for sin and success.
The lynch pin is leadership. If the leadership isn’t taking their walk with God to the next level, then they won’t lead their people there.
We had been attending Grace Chapel for about 6 weeks when I had breakfast with our pastor. I remember peppering him with a series of questions:
Who holds you accountable?
What is God stirring in you?
What books are you reading?
What is your brokenness and how is God using that?
How do you want to lead our church to the cross and not to a personality or style?
To my relief he was comfortable with these questions. Since that first meeting we’ve had additional breakfasts that dove deeper into this topic.
Most chuches (like the world we live in) focus on competencies. That is, how well you can do something (which isn’t all bad). But Christ calls us to lead out of the core of who we are. That is, how well we are surrendering our brokenness to Christ and how He is using that brokenness to draw us to Himself.
We settle for competencies because they focus on metrics that allow us to play the comparison game.
When we drill down to the core of who we are, we can only compare ourselves to Christ…and that is a messy story. But it’s the story that has power because it is a story every soul on this planet can identify with.
Drilldown, and be a heavyweight.

4 comments
Love that you wrote a post this after some thoughts stirred. Comparing ourselves to Christ sure isn’t easy……we don’t get the thrill of feeling like a success all of the time by doing that. The truth is, if we call ourselves followers of His then maybe we’ll start “pretending to be leaders” other times.
Great way to view it – drilling down comparing to building yourself up. Almost makes me write a third post for our series together, LOL.
@ Gabe. Appreciated your post today and for stirring some thoughts. Glad to see we can keep this kind of conversation moving forward. – Peace.
I love it when you stir the pot, Milo.
Pastors (and leaders) need to be on their toes. It’s not like they’re just flipping burgers they are handling spiritual life and death scenarios. If they (we) aren’t on fire then church is just a (book) club.
Lastly,Paul the apostle commended the Berean’s for not just taking his word for it but searching the scriptures. Acts 17:11
@ Jesse. You’re right, the weight of what is expected of a pastor is pretty heavy. At the same time, I think that is what often drives leaders to focus on the surface stuff and not on the core of who they are.
While the weight of what we do should never be forgotten, it can’t steer us. Our love affair with God has to be what feeds our passion (fire) for God. Only then can we move forward with the confidence that God requires of us.
Thanks for being a part of the discussion!